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Finally, young women, if you turn down a date, be kind.Otherwise you may crush a nervous and shy questioner and destroy him as a potential dater, and that could hurt some other sister.
If we are to persuade young men to ask for dates more frequently, we must establish a mutual expectation that to go on a date is not to imply a continuing commitment. It states that the years from 18 to 25 have become “a distinct and separate life stage, a strange, transitional never-never land between adolescence and adulthood in which people stall for a few extra years, [postponing] …adult responsibility.” The article describes these transitional individuals as “permanent adolescents, …Young women, resist too much hanging out, and encourage dates that are simple, inexpensive, and frequent.Don’t make it easy for young men to hang out in a setting where you women provide the food. An occasional group activity is OK, but when you see men who make hanging out their primary interaction with the opposite sex, I think you should lock the pantry and bolt the front door.